A woman’s needs

She needs the attention of someone who cares about her.
She needs the help of someone who wants to take care of her needs.
She needs time when she is not considering what everyone else wants but when someone is considering her wishes.
She needs someone who understands what she likes and makes a plan so that she doesn’t even to think.
She needs someone to anticipate her needs, wants, and wishes and to offer to help without her having to ask.
She needs someone to notice her, love her, and adore her.
She needs someone to miss her and desire her.
She needs to love freely and trust that she will be loved in return.
She needs someone who cares about her well-being to understand what she is going trough and recognize the validity of her feelings.
She needs someone she can confide in who is trustworthy and will not turn on her or break her confidence by revealing her secrets.
She needs someone who regards her as special.
She needs someone to help her in her life so she doesn’t feel she is doing it all by herself.

She not only needs these things but needs to have them fulfilled by someone with whom she feels a natural chemistry on all levels: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. While these needs are not requirement for her survival, like eating, drinking, breathing and shelter, they are required to help her feel a higher degree of emotional fulfillment.
When the lower needs for survival are met, then the higher needs for love and intimacy become more important. For example, if you’re really hungry, then getting fed is all you’re concerned about. Once you have plenty of food, your other needs become important as well. When a woman can provide for herself she begins to strongly feel her higher needs to find fulfillment.
To experience increasing fulfillment, a woman doesn’t have to have all of her needs met at once. The whole process of dating is a gradual process of satisfying her needs a little more at a time. To be satisfied, she just needs to feel hope that one day her emotional needs will be met. In a similar manner, a man doesn’t have to have all his sexual needs met right away; he just needs the hope that they are moving in that direction.
When a man moves into a woman’s world and expresses his support, she appreciates his willingness to help as much as the help itself. On an emotional level, she suddenly feels she is not as alone in the world. When a man does something concrete and tangible for a woman, not only does the woman feel supported, but the man gets to feel successful.